In today’s fast-changing World it is very tough for every Parent to raise Kids properly so they can achieve & live a healthy & prosperous life. To raise Kids properly every parent has to make Kids Foundation very strong. It very tough & required many skills & techniques for parents to raise their kids properly & keep away her/him from unnecessary digital gadgets, to learn them time management, money management & to develop other qualities which lead kids to become them a Good & Successful Human Being. Here I’ve cover three main topics which are very crucial & need to discuss at an early age so Kids can understand better & can make good decisions in their life. These Topics are: Failure & Disappointment, Sex & related topics and Money Management. Besides these topics, there are some more Topics on which Parent’s have to discuss with their Children. Let’s have a look at these 3 most vital topics: 1. Failure, Disappointment & Depression: In this World no one is perfect & everyone faces some failure & disappointment in their life at different stages. Same is for children they also face failures & get disappointed. The main difference is that adults can handle failure but some time Kids cannot handle failure & get disappointed. It may cause depression in children. There are lots of reasons for depression in Kids. It’s parent’s duty to watch their Kids & analyze if they are in any problem if yes then give kids a proper solution, help & guidance so Kids can learn to manage & handle these situations effectively without harming themselves. Reasons for Disappointment & Depression and Children issues: There are lots of reasons like Kids not performing well in Exams, not able to perform better in sports, may be a victim of bullying, may be a victim of cyberbullying or may have some appearance issue. Solution for Disappointment & Depression in Kids: To solve & help kids first parents have to have a watch on their Kids if parents found some changes in Kids behaviour, manners, lack in the study, health or anything irregular then they should talk to their kids as a friend & should support their kids morally & emotionally. Parents should not behave like a saviour, always they should teach their kids how to manage all these problems & if all these things are discussed with kids at an early age then these learning will definitely help Kids in handling all these types of situation beautifully. Know more Children Issues & Solutions in detail. 2. Sex & Other related Topics: It may seem an irrelevant topic to discuss with Kids but it is very important to tell & teach Kids about Sex & other related topics. Not at a very early age but parents should start to discuss early so Kids can understand things about sex & related topics. Parents can start talking with kids when watching the pregnant woman on TV or some other program-related with child education. Parents also can start talking while explaining private parts & good touch & bad touch. All these good teaching will help kids in better understanding about sex. If a child better understands all these things then a child can understand good touch & bad touch, can analyze bad situations & can save them. It also helps kids to not follow bad habits & can save them creating the wrong perception about sex. There are a lot more techniques to teach kids about sex education & it is also called Birds & Bees Talk. 3. Financial Planning/Money Management: To teach Money Management or Financial Planning to kids, it’s not an easy task for parents. Parents have to start it early to teach children about money so in future, they can handle & can do better financial planning. In starting parents should take kids while going for market & should use Cash so that they can understand how money is used for purchasing goods. Parents should give some tasks of shopping to kids in limited budget with shopping options like if they purchase one thing for a higher amount then they can go for other options also to save money. These types of tasks will help kids in understanding how money is used & how they can save money. Parents should teach children how money is managed & should tell them different terms & there meanings like: Spending, Saving, Investment, Donation. All these terms help kids to understand better money management. There are lots of other methods which parents can try to Teach Kids about Money Management. Hope this will help every parent to connect and communicate with their children more easily and will make their bonding more strong and will help children in understanding and managing these problems easily.
ICSE/ISC Result-2019 will be released by the CISCE(Council for Indian School Certificate Examination) and can result can be check on CISCE official website: https://www.cisce.org/ ICSE/ISC Result-2019: The Council for Indian School Certificate Examination will declare ICSE/ISC Result-2019 for Class XII on Tuesday, 07th May 2019 at 03:00 PM. The result will be declared on ISC official website https://www.cisce.org/. There are some other website where students can check their results. Students are advised to look for their admit cards or hall tickets issued by CISCE before checking their result which are going to announce on 07th May 2019. ISC Admit Card are must to check result as it carries important information like: Roll Number, exam Center detail etc which are required at the time of login to check the results. How to check ICSE/ISC Result-2019: Step 1: Visit the official website of CISCE at https://www.cisce.org/. Step 2: Click on the link ISC Board Result 2019. Step 3: Enter required details. Step 4: Press submit. Step 5: Check your result & save a copy for future.
Every married couple wants to enjoy parenthood. After getting children sometimes parents feel that it is not an easy task to raising a family. Then they understand that they have to learn & understand the best ways to raise their family. For parents raising a family while keeping their life balanced is basically an art & it can be developed by using simple techniques. Following are Top 10 Parenting Tips which can help every parent to balance their life while raising their family. Know your Kid’s Strength & Weakness: Every Parent should identify weakness & strength of their kids which can help them to build their kid’s self-esteem, to develop confidence & to teach him other aspects of life. E.g. If a child analyze things fast & reply fast, with this ability if he disrespect those who takes more time in analyzing things then parents should make him understand to use his strength to help others or in any other positive manner not for disrespecting others. Same if a Kids has any weakness then parents should encourage him/her to overcome that problem by developing confidence & self-esteem in that Kid. Kids understand & listen carefully how to handle or correct adverse situation & behavior when their dignity is intact. Punish Kids or Praise them & Reward them: Punishing a child is not as effective as Praising them & Rewarding them. While focusing on weakness parents should also find the ways to assist & help children to develop their full potential. It can be done by praising kids when they little good things like helping someone, parents should reward them for good thing they do. By all this when kids develop their potential then their weakness will also overcome by their positive attitude & talents. When kids are encouraged & parents help them on their weakness then it will work more effectively. By working on these two ways kids will overcome their weakness & will acquire talents, self-confidence to compensate for any weakness or any other deficiencies. Avoid negative emotions like anger, ridicule & sarcasm: If a child has some problem in controlling his behavior or some negativity, it will feel him/her worse. Parents should handle this situation with love, Short & Mild suggestions. Like if a child has problem in learning & he/her develop some negative thoughts then parents should teach them learning tips & tricks with love so that they can develop positive mindset & attitude towards there weakness & can overcome over their problems. Comparison between Siblings: Parents should always note that if anyone of their kids fells that other one is favored. If this situation occurs then parents should clear & make kids understand that all kids are equal to parents. Because if a kid feels that his/her sibling is favored then it can create rivalry which may last the rest of their lives & may cause more problems in family. Make sure your all kids know that their parents love them equally. Parents can get support from outside if they need: Life with children is like a roller coaster ride. Parents have to solve, help & resolve all their children problems in any way, it may be helping them in career decision making or helping them in any other way. If parents fail to help their kids in their crucial time then it will create negative effect over children. So parents are suggested that if they need any help from their friends, from experts or from any other person they should go for it to help their kids because there will be negative aspects to child rearing. Positive Attention & Negative Attention: Children always need positive attention from parents & family. If parents don’t give positive attention they may seek for negative attention because any attention is better than ignorance. So parents are advised to show positive attention to children. Love, Care & Positive attention are the greatest healers. Monitor Child’s use of the Internet: Parents should have a eye on their Kids use of Internet. There are different types of stuff over Internet which can harm your kids. So watch kids internet uses, get software which can control their internet access to dangerous websites & programs & can show you their details of website they visit & monitor their chats. Life changes when you become Parents; Accept it: When you have a child, it is advised to change accordingly. Change your daily routine, manage time to spend with your children, take interest in their games and participate in little activities they do. All these will help you to make relationship & family bonding more strong. Parent by example: Parents should think that their little children are like little copy machines who will copy everything you do. So parents should not behave badly & avoid every activity which can affect their little ones in a negative way. Parents should always try to become example in front of their children. Never give up on your child: All children problems are not so big which can’t be resolved. Resolve & worked on your children problems with humor, goodwill, Perseverance & Love. With good pparental support most troublesome children have become amazing person in their future. So don’t give up on your child handle situation beautifully with caring nature & love. In future what your Child will be? It all depends on his/her family life & on their Parents. Parents should give all they can, keep themselves cool, keep themselves connected with children always. By following all these simple tips will result in surprise, joy & will reward parents.
“The Birds & The Bees Talk” in general it is that talk in which Parents explain & talk about Sexual relationship to their kids. People say, “Charity begins at home”. But basically, every good thing or beginning step of any education begins at home. This is because what we learn from home generally stays with us for long and it gets embedded within our souls. We try to follow it unknowingly. Sex education is not an exception in this case. Parents Dos and Don’ts on Sex Education: Indian parents are usually very judgmental of what should be discussed at home and what should be kept under covers. But can we really segregate that these are the things we should discuss at home and these are the things that we should refrain from? Well, right and wrong are basically relative terms. But of course the parents are somebody to decide what their children should know at what point of time. Indian Social Norms on Sex Education: In today’s world, with the increasing use of internet, it has become extremely difficult and sometimes impossible for the parents to monitor what their child is growing with each and every day. India is definitely one of those lands which run on the basis of Pre-conceived notions when it comes to the society. What the society will think of ourselves is more important to us than what we want ourselves to be and this malicious choice of priorities has casted its evil shadow not only on The Birds and The Bees Talk, but also on the ambitions of the youngsters. Sex & Education: A Natural Process : Diffusion, osmosis and photosynthesis are perhaps the most fundamental concepts that we have gained from our Biology books. But why should we learn about these natural processes if we are not allowed to learn about sex which is also the most fundamental natural phenomenon.Without sex, life would have been impossible on earth.Yet in today’s 21st century, Indian parents fail to understand the significance of sex education.Learning something from textbook and reference articles is very different from learning through discussions. Discussions are always more helpful than any kind of reading-writing procedure and if we have the same discussion with our family members then I can challenge that things will be more easy to understand and we will surely have a different kind of comfort level with each of our family members. Parent’s Thoughts on Sex Education: Whenever the word sex is uttered most of the people develop a sense of dirty feeling within their minds. What they fail to realize is that it’s the very cause of their own existence. A magazine displaying condom advertisement on its back cover is hidden away by the elders of the so-called cultured families.They tend to restrict each and every child of the family to keep away from such advertisements.Instead of doing such kind of meaningless activities if a person sits and talks with his or her daughter or son about the protective measures of a healthy sexual life then perhaps the society can become a better place to live in. Request to Parents on The Birds & The Bees Talk: It’s an earnest request to each of the parents round the world on my behalf—please allow your child to know the truth of his or her existence. With the accelerating curve of child sexual abuse, it is very important for each of the young hearts of the world to become cautious and aware of the surroundings. And if something unfortunate happens, your children must have a comfort level to share his or her dreadful experience with you. This can only be achieved through normal conversations on The Birds and The Bees—through words, through gestures or through games.
It is never too early to educate a child about safety and security. Parents are afraid of their child`s safety at schools, roads and even at home; irrespective of age, a child should be aware of their surroundings, and self security should be their first priority. Teaching a child about talking to strangers depends on their age. Preschoolers are unaware of the term “stranger” and fail to determine who is safe or unsafe. Thus, at schools and toddlers must be taught about basic safety and how to deal with unfavorable situations. The 5- to 8-year-old must be given special attention and lessons about safety and how to deal with strangers, when they are alone and unsupervised in public or at home. A 4 year old knows who a stranger is and must be taught safety rules. Whereas, School-age kids have an idea that some strangers might be dangerous and some can be totally harmless. They have the ability to differentiate between the two with their judgment and impulse. Ways to teach kids to handle strangers: Informing Parents: A parent should be aware of their child`s whereabouts, no matter where they are going. A child must be given strict instructions to inform to their parents about their outings. Even if it is a minor chore or an errand, a parent should be informed; this way they can protect their child from other people. A child should feel free to inform their parents about someone`s inappropriate behavior, be it a stranger or a known person. Parents must listen to their kids by supporting them and address the person trying to hurt them. No Stringent Rules: To a child, virtually everyone they meet is a stranger, at least at first, like, day-care providers and teachers, babysitters, doctors and nurses and dentists, the mail carrier, even police officers. While there are some strangers with ill-intentions, most of the others are safe and probably friendly and kindly disposed towards children. Thus, a child should not be taught to “never” interact with a stranger, rather they should be taught to be more alert and aware and avoid any physical contacts. Childproofing: At an early age a child should be taught to spell and write their full name and at least know the names of one parent. They must know their address and telephone numbers of their parents and emergency numbers like 9-1-1 or 1-0-0. Basic body safety: Teachers and parents should educate 2- and 3-year-old with general body safety. Preschoolers are not too young to learn the correct terms for their genitals and they must be taught that no one is supposed to touch their private parts and they must avoid any kind of physical contact with strangers or sit on their laps. Using Public Bathrooms and Trial Rooms: By age 6, most children are ready to use a public restroom and trail rooms on their own. A parent should be vigilant and should stay close to their child. They must immediately refuse help from unknown people, if offered any. Ability to say NO: A child should be taught to recognize suspicious behavior. Instead of telling them to be scared of an unknown person and run away from them, a child must be taught to detect danger and uncanny situations. Instances like, a stranger offering candies, asking for directions, asking for personal information, showing inappropriate behavior; kids should be aware of such circumstances and never succumb to the given scenario. They should be taught to stay away from such strangers and never offer or accept any help from such people. Final Thought about Parents, Kids & Strangers: It is not possible to protect kids from strangers at all times. But it is possible to teach them about appropriate behaviors and what to do if somebody crosses the line. There is no point crushing a child`s friendly and outgoing nature and terrorizing a child by making them scared of everyone by dwelling on such unpleasant possibilities as kidnapping, rape, and murder; rather they must be taught to distinguish among different people and always be alert and attentive. Keeping these tips in mind can help kids stay safe while they’re out and about.